I recently saw the Iranian film called “A separation”. It recently won the Golden Globe award, deservingly.
The plot: A married couple that has a daughter, appears in front of a judge and ask that they be given a divorce. The wife wants the whole family to leave Iran and start a new life but the husband does not want to leave because his father suffers from Altzheimers and someone needs to look after him. ” He has Altzheimers, he doesn’t even know you are there.” she protests and he answers back, Im his son, I know Im there, and I should be there!

The judge does not issue a divorce and the wife leaves from home and moves in with her mother and waits until her husband either changes his mind or shows her that he loves her by coming to claim her back. During her absence the husband hires a woman to look after his dad. The woman is pregnant and when she has a miscarriage she accuses the husband of being responsible for her losing the baby as he pushed her down some stairs when they had a row after she had left his dad alone in the house, tied on the bed when she was supposed to be looking after him. And a court battle commences that affects all the people involved considerably.
It is a great story that shows life in Iran today, the beliefs of people, their everyday hardships, their religious beliefs, their shortcomings, the dreams they have of a better life and how society directs their moves. I liked the film because it was an inside in Iran, a country i know nothing about except what is shown in the news and the western media and it is refreshing to see a film about Iran made by Iranians themselves. The law system, the religious beliefs and the position of women in society reminded me of Cyprus society 50 years ago. Although in one case we have Christianity and on the other case we have Muslim, the strictness of religion was similar 50 years ago in Cyprus as is still today in Iran. The beliefs of the people changed over time here and it seems like in Iran there is a wind of change coming too but the religion there seems to be still holding people grounded. Although I could see many western elements in their lives too. Cars, clothes, houses seem to be like any other country but the covered women and the man-dominated public services showed that there is still a long way to go for Iran to be a country like the West. Although perhaps they might not want to become like the West in the first place.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1832382/


